Men, kill your loser mentality.

"Houses are expensive."
"Jobs are scarce"
"Nobody respects me."
"My wife is cold."
"My church is lame."

So? Stop whining and take responsibility. As @dougwils puts it, the essence of masculinity is the glad assumption of responsibility.

Whining won’t fix anything. Gladly assuming responsibility, on the other hand, is potent.