@AliciaGabriella I wish you harmonic family, loving husband and healthy and upright children, because this is what matters most, all other things just support this...

For upright upbringing, the Children need two Templates, both male and female, strong and loving, severity and mercy, well balanced into the Harmony...

For a good Harmony, multiple different voices are needed, some plays flute and some plays bass, etc...

Consider, that People are building or maintaining various things, but a decade or century from now, it would be almost all forgotten... The Ancient builders of Pyramids have built huge piles of stones that are still standing there 5000 years later, and may be standing there a million years from now, but these are just unalive piles of stone and they won't be any better after some time... But each or most of them had children, and these had children, and now there is "below" each of them a huge Alive Pyramid of descendants until this day and possibly long time into future... You may consider a Family to be a burden or small stone to carry in life, but most of you do not realize, that instead you are standing on a Tip of a potential huge Alive Pyramid of descendants, hidden in the sand of Future...
And you are holding an almost infinite rope or thread of Life from Ancestors to Descendants, carrying it through the Present...
This Continuity of Life is what matters most, all the other things are just for supporting that...
And how Upright children you'll rise, so will be they and their descendants Happy... But Decadence is like a Mire... Now in every present you collectively decide, whether your children and descendants will be marching into some Paradise on Earth or to a Hell on Earth, here in their Future... Better aim to send your children a better way...
(And if you don't have own children, then you are or should be supporting children of your neighbours and nation...)

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