David Edward Garber (@DaveGarber1975)

"Dr. John Gottman interviews Jimmy Knowles (Jimmy on Relationships) about reframing love as action, especially in conflict, through humility, accountability, self-reflection, accepting influence, and learning a partner's needs. Knowles discusses men's struggles with vulnerability and emotional immaturity, how fatherhood and childhood experiences shaped his people-pleasing and fear of rejection, and how kids can expose unresolved marital issues like poor conflict de-escalation and the 'four horsemen.' He shares that his marriage nearly ended in divorce but improved through counseling, building emotional safety, practicing repair, and prioritizing the relationship. They address male suffering, the dangers of misogyny and manosphere ideology, and how fear-based beliefs about value and 'hypergamy' undermine commitment. They emphasize appreciation, emotional presence, and modeling healthy repair for children." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LF89ETIVWtg #Family #Marriage #MarriageTips #MaritalAdvice #MaritalCounsel #Masculinity #Husbands #Fathers