Clint (@Cb85)

My name is Clint and I feel in marriage the sexual relationship should be led by the wife. Song of Solomon (the only bible book on romance and sex) seems to indicate she invites and leads and he responds and compliments. Looking beyond the bible for reasons it’s obvious the woman’s drive is highly subjective on her cycle, on how she feels about her body, stress level, etc. But the man is capable of physical intimacy at tge drop of a hat. This is reversed from what traditionally is believed in Christian circles. And in our experience it’s worked wonderfully well once we implemented it. It took some time for my wife to adjust and grow confident in asking and directing what she wants and when (she knows what I want) but now that she has we are both happier and we both feel far more appreciated and loved. Ladies be open about what you want in romantic ways. Men need to back off in the bedroom and step up and lead in everything else and you’ll see a different side of your wife. Begging, asking, pestering only turns her off. Compliments, deferring to her sexual moods, and leading in everything else turns her on… Depending on where she is in her cycle, stress level, and many other factors. How does this work in homesteads Well strong marriages mean much stronger homesteads..