Foxy Roller (@FoxyRoller)

Our daughter has been in Jui Jitsu for about a year and a half, she loves it, we love it. There is a family there that, the Mom, 'Dad', and both their children participate. The 'Dad' is humongous, 6'5 easy, hard working man his whole life by the look of it, electrician/farmer i think. He has boobs HUGE FAKE BOOBS, and wears a workout shirt under his Gi that says "Keep Jui Jitsu Gay" 🙄 very long hair and obviously thinks he is gay as he identifies as a woman. Now one of their sons, the youngest, identifies as non- binary. His wife is actually lovely, chatty, supportive, kind and welcomming, but you can tell she may not be completely on board with this insanity. The husband has never said one word to me, my husband, nor our daughter. Its a small community group, so its very obvious he avoids us, which is fine by me. Clearly the demons influencing him do not like The Holy Spirit in my family and myself. Last night while my daughter and i were in the woman's bathroom before practice began, i was still in the stall while my daughter waited at the sink when he came in. At the time i had no knowledge of what was happening, in the stall peeing. On the way home my daughter told me what happened. She said they made eye contact, she saw panic in his eyes, but now he was committed, he went into the stall beside me, did his whatever fast and bolted out, i guess trying to avoid me seeing him in there. My daughter told me she said nothing at the time because she knew i would freak out and cause a scene, she's not wrong. We informed my husband as soon as we were home. He is livid! So now what? Do i have a meeting with the Professor? What's he supposed to do about it? If he does do something, he risks his income, that's 4 paying people he may potentially loose. Obviously we will have to alter our behavior to avoid this situation again, using bathroom at house before arrival and holding it until we're home afterwards. As sometimes due to work obligations, my hubby can't always attend JJ with us. If hubby is there with us, he will be guarding door while we use the bathroom. I'd appreciate thoughts and solutions from my Gab friends.....HELP