Carissa Conti (@Carissa_Conti)

"YOU'RE WELCOME." Guess today will be a two-for Tuesday......! A repeating phenomenon I've experienced over the years is a form of bully haranguing being done by total strangers in public that involves sarcastically saying to me "YOU'RE WELCOME...." for things they believe I should have been thanking them for, but which I totally don't need to. It's interesting because, as noted in my "INFJ" article (posted on my website, linked in my Gab bio) I'm "THAT CHICK" who's always saying thank you for every stupid little thing, or I'm sorry for shit I didn't even do or which isn't my fault. "I’m so sorry….thaaannnk you…. thaaannnk you, I’m so sorry! I’m sorry! I apologize! I’m sorry! thaaannnk you, I really appreciate it! I apologize! I’m sorry! I’m just so sorry, thaaannnk you, I REALLY appreciate it….oh my god I’m so sorry! I’m sorry! I’m REALLY sorry! thaaannnk you….” A slightly exaggerated recounting, but, it's not that far off. But it means I'm not a rude, ungrateful person by ANY means. So this phenomenon is....odd, to say the least. I'm the last person who needs to be told to say thank you. But then again.....it's never being said by truly nice people. It's *always* straight up nasty, entitled, egomaniacal bullies, whether male or female. The fact that this is a repeating phenomenon going back years, and being done by bullies zeroing in on me out of everybody in the vicinity, shows that it relates to a form of targeting. Not by a group of people who are "knowingly in on it," but by what I believe is hyperdimensional neg forces, working through empty "people," which I've written about in depth also on my website. Whatever your weak spot is, the thing that "gets under your skin," they know and hone in on that. Because it works. It's a guaranteed trigger that induces negative loosh for feeding, as well as potentially interfering with/derailing your day. Something else I've also noticed over the years is that once you become aware of the weak trigger points that "stuff" is exploiting and get yourself prepared for "THE NEXT TIME".....it usually stops. ;) Either because it's "lesson learned" on your end, and/or they know it won't work anymore. In today's case I wasn't even remotely expecting it to happen....but was IMMEDIATELY on it in 2 seconds flat, without hesitation, because of all the past experiences. I was picking up an order at Panera that I placed online and went to go grab some extra napkins on my way out. There was a ~40-ish white guy standing there, blocking the small area where you get napkins, sugars, etc. as he did his thing. I patiently waited behind him. Not huffing/sighing, not fidgeting. Just standing still, waiting quietly. He finally notices and mumbles something about whether I need to get in there, and shifts a little to the right. I lean forward and grab a couple of napkins - not huffily, not annoyed - put them in my bag and turn to leave, trying to be quick since he was there first. As I got to the front door about 10 feet away I hear him behind me sarcastically say "YOU'RE WELCOME." Without even thinking I immediately turned back and went right up to him, standing only about a foot from him, tilting my head upwards at him while staring him dead in the eyes and said VERY firmly, in a "do not fuck with me" voice, "I don't owe you a thank you. Okay? I do not owe you a thank you. So don't hone in on me because I'm a female, alone, without a man protecting me. I don't owe you a thank you. Don't be a bully." Eyes locked, with that stern parental voice. He just stared back at me wide eyed, completely caught off guard, while continually nodding, and responded with "Okay.......!" 😆 Then I left. But if I was a dude....he wouldn't have said that. If I was with a dude....he wouldn't have said that. But I'm a tiny petite female, wearing a nice eye catching dress for work, looking small, alone, meek, weak, just a "certain way" that these types LOVE to hone in on. And it wouldn't be the first time it's happened. Or the second. Or the third..... Well, hopefully he learned a big lesson today. Don't fuck with people no matter what they look like. Because you don't know who people are. If he had decided to keep it going I would have mocked him for being a grown ass adult man acting like a sensitive little bitch because some little female didn't say THANK YOU!!! to him....for merely moving over a few inches. So, Phase 2 would have been going in for the manhood angle, to make a point to this weak, coward bully. But luckily it didn't go that far. The funny part is, on my way out as I was deep in thought about this I automatically held the door open for another female entering in at the same time, who in turn said "thanks" to which I said "you're welcome" in a totally normal voice. So both overlapped. But going to show how it goes when it's two normal people interacting. (CONTINUED IN ATTACHED COMMENT 👇👇)