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Handler’s Zodiac Sign. Here I am skimming the personality traits of various zodiac signs and eyes widen when I read the Cancer traits. Obviously personality traits are way more complex but when you have someone matching an intense number of them you have to start wondering. I don’t know this dude’s birthday, could care less (and doubt he even knows) but it explains SOOO much about the points of contention when dealing with him. I’m going to focus on the toxic traits because he rarely if ever shows the good qualities. So just because I am only sharing the worst, doesn’t mean Cancer people are terrible. Quite the contrary, they have an incredible depth of feeling, intuition, loyalty and love for those they care about. They are also all about the family and home. The toxic side of the Cancer sign is that they are: 1) Needy/clingy: yuuuup, handler to a T. It gets so bad sometimes that I get violent just to get him to stop. 2) Either is a mama’s boy or has mama issues: he has indicated in the past he struggled with what little mothering he got. Cancer men on an unconscious level seek out a mothering and nurturing partner. 3) Extremely jealous: holy crap is he jealous, so much so that it even shocked David Jacobs. He has also punched me and more recently punched a guy I was going out with, same location on the cheekbone, same nasty red welt. The boyfriend had no idea how it happened but knew it happened overnight, same with me. 4) Possessive: this stems from their deep seeded fears of rejection and painful insecurities. Not only is he possessive of me with regards to people on earth but even onboard. He also won’t allow me to look at other people, he wants to be the only one I pay attention to. 5) Emotionally manipulative: I’m guessing all hybrids are like this but it is extra mentally draining to deal with his BS. He can be very subtle in his manipulation but then escalates it to aggression if he doesn’t get his way. 6) Either becomes cold/distant or exhibit bipolar emotional outbursts: he mostly has the outbursts but can become quite cruel if I do even the tiniest thing to set him off or insult him. 7) Is obsessive about family: Cancer people prioritize family and friends above all else and I can attest to this because my brother is a Cancer. This hybrid takes it to a toxic level by threatening to do terrible stuff if I don’t interact with his children. If I want to really hit him where it hurts I start dissing his offspring. 8) Intensely affectionate: this is a positive trait except when it comes from someone I detest. Cancer people emotionalize the physical stuff and need that constant validation. He is no different and it is sooooo draining to put up with it. Not only that but he insists on it, he won’t let me zone out. David found that trait of his interesting since he typically heard hybrids be more cold or less intent on getting emotional gratification. 9) Controlling/protective: in his warped view of what our relationship is he wants to control who I talk to, what I wear, what I eat/drink, whether I party or not, and even if I should be riding my bike or driving my car all the while lecturing me about how it’s unsafe. All those things are his way of protecting me (again in his warped mindset), but that just makes me want to do everything he hates more 🤣. Needless to say I’ve had quite the adventurous life…still alive! … Still alive 😏. 10) Won’t easily let go: The 🦀 is the Cancer sign and we know how tenacious they can be. Cancer people do not easily let go of their partners in a world where people have freedoms. So can you imagine a society where hybrids feel they have ownership of their partners? I tried every which way to negotiate with him on that matter and he basically said that it would be like someone cutting off his hands. He sees me as an extension of himself, period! The only beings that can separate us are the greys and mantids. When that briefly happened he nearly lost his mind with jealousy and separation anxiety. What is most interesting is that Cancer is a water sign and I’m an Aries, a fire sign. All the horoscopes I’ve seen either say to steer clear or warn that it will take A LOT of work to make that relationship last. Since I hate his f$&@ing guts I hope he isn’t holding his breath for some dreamy future of domestic bliss. 🤣🤣🤣 Anywho! Whether that is actually his sign or there is any validity to the horoscopes, this explains a lot about why he is super intense when other hybrids are not. Image Source: https://www.publicdomainpictures.net/en/view-image.php?image=434358&picture=cancer-zodiac-sign-clipart